Wednesday, February 22, 2012

One Year Later....

I'm not sure if I told you this, but about a year ago I cut out Neverending Boyfriend from my life completely. Well, I stopped talking to him at least (there may or may not be an occasional peek at his FB page, but other than that our ties are completely severed). It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do - and continues to be challenging because anytime I'm going through something difficult he's the first person I want to go to - but I continue to freeze him out because it's necessary for my well-being and peace of mind.
Likewise, a few months later I cut out one of my dearest girlfriends who I've known since Junior High. There wasn't really a big fight, we just weren't bringing out the best in each other, and it was getting harder and harder to be friends. So, one day I stopped. While I think it was the right choice, I wish her nothing but the best and hope she's happy. Today is her birthday and it's strange not to be calling her and sending her a little something in the mail. I suppose I do miss her - I miss them both - but I know what I'm doing is right for me. Guess I was just thinking about her today and wanted to share.....That is all.

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